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July 16, 2003 - 3:37 a.m. IF YOU READ MY JOURNAL BEFORE.... SCROLL DOWN.� I DONT
FEEL LIKE ADDING A NEW ENTRY.. THERE IS NEW STUFF AT THE BOTTOM. It's 3:37am and Im sitting here in matt's bedroom writing my journal. I would have left the update for tomorrow night, but i just have to vent right now. I just did something that i wasnt sure i should do or not. I confessed again that i still like someone, who for purposes of this journal..shall remain nameless. I hate the way it always ends pretending that nothing's weird.. but it really is. And now, how do i face this tomorrow. I mean, I was told "this isnt gonna be weird tomorrow" but also was told that "things are already weird in case you hadn't noticed" and FUCKKK that's exactly what i dont want.. because I can deal with my liking someone who doesnt like me back, but the problem is that I dont want that tochange the way we act around eachother. I dont want all of my actions to be looked at as some sort of move to further something "more than friends" After tonight's conversation i know that nothing is ever gonna happen between us, and ok.. i said i was sad about that, and yeah, im sitting here crying now, i dont know what else to say.. ive spent months liking someone who's every single move and every little detail i loved more than life... i dont know how to explain it. and so im sitting here listening to coldplay, a fitting song whose name i cant remember, and crying and i dont know what else to say. yeah i wish i had a chance.. i wish for one minute that i had had a chance.. and everyone tells me.. oh this is your first real crush, and all.. and i guess thats kinda true, but still.. i know it's something special.. but whatever i can deal with it not being reciprocated.. its just that i dont wanna make the friendship uncomfortable by keeping confessing things,and being anooying. So i give up.. i wont talk about it anymore, but I just pray to god now that everything will be back to normal tomorrow. I just need a friend now. I really do. I wish we could talk the way we used to. I really hope we can again sometime. I hate myself for my insecuriteis, and my insecurities about matt. i am afraid of things.. I cant really go into it.. but whatever... im insecure about myself and thats why i dont like him involved in things relating to me even though he's a great friend to me. so im the jerk, im a loser, i dont know how to handle things, and maybe i am naive. but i know how i feel and i know what i felt. maybe there are a million other people out there, and i shouldnt jump at the first, but i think that sometimes things happen for a reason but enough about that because i have toget over it i have to move on... so now it's all about being friends, and it;s my job to make sure things arent fucking screwed up becuiase for the one time in my life i got the guts to say how i feel and i dont want to make things weird. I wish i could talk about this in person. I really wish i could. but im too chicken to bring up the subject, and i know its not gonna be done from the other side. this sucks. Ah well...i guess tomorrow we will see just how weird/normal things are.. God.. please let them be normal. alright if better get to bed now i have work early in the morning.. matts party was fun and ill fill in all the details about it tomorrow night... i just cant do it now. Alright till tomorrow..... Goodnight. :) ----------------------------- Alright well i just got home from the dentist.� My day may as well just get crappier and crappier.�� The dentist actually wasnt that bad, but i just really wasnt looking forward to it.� He said I don't have any cavities or anything, and he cleaned my teeth and all..� but he says I might need my wisdom teeth taken out.. he's not sure. Sounds fun. Today at work was boring, It actually went very very fast though.� I think that I did more work today at Tech Services than I ever have before.� I finished two whole carts of videos, dvds, and audio books.� I was moving at the speed of light, and the weird thing is... looking back on it i usually remember all of the movies i did, and can picture myself putting the stickers on... and I have no recollection.� I was completely lost in thought, in a daze.. confused.. i dont even know how to describe it.��� The only time i laughed was when i dropped a pile of empty VHS cases all over the floor, and everyone stared at me.� (but then elaine knocked over a full cart of books, so noone remembered my little accident LOL)�� anyway, WOW was that just a "lol" from me.� wow.�� Anyway... i sat out in the parking lot on my break...eating pizza..and staring at the bricks between the laundromat and the bar. ugh. I am home now for an hour or so before I have to leave for school..� I dont want to go.� I just love craziness.� Im still mad at myself.. mad that I generate awkwardness... mad that I let
myself get so hung up on one person.. mad that i dont know anything. I also decided on the way home from the dentist that my life is way too
easy.� and what i mean by that is...�� Ok.. I put no effort into
anything at all.� All through high school i did nothing.� I never did
my homework unless i had no choice, i never put effort into learning things, i
just sat there and absorbed.� And i did fine, i did great.. whatever.�
Then college.. I just sit there.� I dont open the text books... I dont read
them, obiously.� I dont study or do any kind of work that requires
effort.� I just sit there, absorb information, and take tests... and do
well.� Work?� I started off working my ass off, as hard as i could,
and then i realized i didnt have to, and it wasnt worth it.� And now i dont.�
I just go... wander.. and collect my money.�� I sit at home all the
time,� I sit online, i go out with my friends,, but i put no real effort
into anything, and it sucks.� I used to be devoted to my libraryness... at
least i had that.� Nesconset.� I would do anyhting for nesconset...
but now that I dont even have that.. i dont have the one thing i could really
immerse myself in.� I just dont put effort into things.. and some people would say.. if you can get by without doing stuff.. why is that a bad thing? Well.. its not so much a bad thing, but it doesnt leave me with a sense of being fulfilled by what ive done. UGH i dont even know how to describe it. And even.. I went to the dentist ... no cavities... i dunno i dont know how i avoid all kinda of things all the time. Im mad that matt was right.� Everything matt told me about this situation was correct.� he said noting was gonna happen, and he told me not to do what i did,� he told me.� he knew.� Eveyone else kept saying "go for it" "do it." "you have to say that you feel that way"� and I wanted to.�� I didnt want to believe what matt was saying cause it meant i didnt have a chance.. but ok.. he was right.. and i should have put more thought into what he said.� I dont know.���� I just appreciate the talk we had last night while i was face down into the couch trying to die. LOL� <---ooo another "lol" The only thing I have to look forward to is that Re is going to make me happy
tonight, she says shes gonna "take me out on the town" lol.�
Well, shes the only one who was able to get a normal smile out of me today, so I
hope tonight we will do something fun, and I'll forget about things that are
pissing me off. anyway i dont know what else to write now.� but this day SUCKS.� so... with hope itll be better tomorrow.� or maybe...itll just be worse.
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